{"id":41620,"date":"2017-04-10T05:19:04","date_gmt":"2017-04-09T19:19:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/content.easyweddings.com\/au\/articles\/plan-second-wedding\/"},"modified":"2021-11-10T05:35:11","modified_gmt":"2021-11-09T18:35:11","slug":"plan-second-wedding","status":"publish","type":"au-article","link":"https:\/\/www.easyweddings.com.au\/articles\/plan-second-wedding\/","title":{"rendered":"How to plan your second wedding"},"content":{"rendered":"
Congratulations on finding love and happiness with a new partner! Whether you experienced a divorce or were widowed, this is a time to celebrate new beginnings and the chance to start a new chapter of your life.<\/p>\n
Although you already know the ins and outs of wedding planning, having done it once before, your perspective on what you would like for your next wedding could be very different.<\/p>\n
You are now a little wiser and although the logistics of planning a wedding are the same, you might want to place more focus on certain elements of the day.<\/p>\n
Here are some tips to help you plan your second wedding.<\/p>\n
<\/a><\/p>\n First things first, talk to your fiance about what your expectations are. This may be your partners first wedding, and even if it’s your second wedding, it’s good to be on the same page.<\/p>\n Either way, you will need to discuss what they think the day will look like and plan together whether you want a big white wedding, something small and intimate, or to elope and enjoy each other’s company instead.<\/p>\n Even if you have already had a huge wedding with all the bells and whistles, you don’t have to feel like you should downsize just because this is your second wedding!<\/p>\n Go with whatever you and your fiance want, this is your celebration as a couple and not about pleasing anyone else. Your second wedding (and marriage) is a very important step and should be celebrated however you would like to.<\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Don’t be tempted to compare the wedding you are planning now to your previous one.<\/p>\n Of course there are lessons you would have learned, and by all means, try to avoid recreating some mistakes.<\/p>\n Instead, move forward with your wedding plans as if you are doing it for the first time. It will, after all, be with a new partner and a new combination of families and possibly even a whole host of new friends., so dwelling on the past will not help anybody.<\/p>\n Once upon a time, baby showers for anything other than your first child was frowned upon, but times change!<\/p>\n Mums can enjoy baby showers for their fourth and fifth children if they want to, and people welcome the chance to celebrate. After all, who doesn’t enjoy a good party?<\/p>\n The same applies to bachelorette parties<\/a>! There is every reason to celebrate this new love and you shouldn’t deprive yourself the opportunity to enjoy this moment with the gals.<\/p>\n This is not<\/em> a sequel to your first wedding, this is a whole new event with new lead characters, so your wedding invitation <\/a>wording should be the same as any other!<\/p>\n If you went traditional the first time around, how about spicing it up a bit and writing your own vows<\/a>?<\/p>\n Not only will you have a greater understanding of what marriage means to you, chances are you also have a greater appreciation of the characteristics your partner has that encouraged you to give love a second chance.<\/p>\nTalk it over<\/h2>\n
Size does matter<\/h2>\n
Leave the past in the past<\/h2>\n
Bachelorette party<\/h2>\n
Invitations<\/h2>\n
Vows<\/h2>\n