{"id":35256,"date":"2014-12-12T02:03:26","date_gmt":"2014-12-11T15:03:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/content.easyweddings.com\/au\/articles\/qa-all-the-answers-on-wedding-stationery\/"},"modified":"2021-11-10T03:35:56","modified_gmt":"2021-11-09T16:35:56","slug":"qa-all-the-answers-on-wedding-stationery","status":"publish","type":"au-article","link":"https:\/\/www.easyweddings.com.au\/articles\/qa-all-the-answers-on-wedding-stationery\/","title":{"rendered":"Everything you needed to know about wedding stationery – and more"},"content":{"rendered":"
<\/a> The creative collective, who had worked together before, decided to team up to create a wedding-specific online stationery site offering customisable ranges and one-off bespoke choices to suit varied budgets and turnaround times.\u00a0But when it came to selecting a memorable name, it probably took longer than the business side of things.<\/p>\n \u201cWe continued to bandy around many names, but no one could agree,\u201d graphic designer Saffron Jensen said. \u201cThen our owner, Rebecca, went out on a date one night, came in the next morning after an amazing time and made a comment about the person she had met.\u00a0The word she used was ‘lovestruck’ and, with that, we had our business name.\u201d<\/p>\n Saffron \u2013 who says clients work with one designer the whole way through – believes getting the stationery right is a crucial part of wedding planning.<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s the first aspect of the wedding that your friends and family see and receive,\u201d she says. \u201cIt sets the theme and style and can be a lasting memento<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n But it\u2019s also a process that can be confusing and a little intimidating. So we set out to answer some of the most common questions from brides and grooms.<\/p>\n Technically, the first two pieces of stationery<\/a> are the engagement announcement and engagement party invitations. But when your focus turns to the wedding itself, item No. 1 is the save the date card<\/a>, which serves a really practical purpose.<\/p>\n For starters, many couples have such long engagements that the invitations come well after they\u2019ve locked in a day \u2013 so a save the date is a great way to ensure guests keep it spare.<\/p>\n This is particularly important if you\u2019ve picked a notable time of year, for example New Year\u2019s Eve, on the weekend of a major sporting grand final or on a public holiday \u2013 ie dates when people could normally be expected to have other plans. The card also lets people start to lock in earlybird prices for transport and accommodation.<\/p>\n If you want to go the whole hog and feature the full complement of wedding stationery, here\u2019s what else you would choose (more details here<\/a>) \u00a0\u2026<\/p>\n Now, it sounds like a lot of stationery \u2013 and it is. But, as with everything wedding related, it\u2019s about choosing only the pieces that fit your theme and vision.<\/p>\n For example, some people might forego the escort and table cards in favour of a seating plan at the entrance to the reception. Other couples might have no need of a wedding announcement as everyone they really cared about was there. Still others might choose to thank their attendants with a gift, rather than a card or note.<\/p>\n So, remember that, apart from the basics, such as a wedding invitation<\/a> and thank you cards, it\u2019s all about what you \u2018can\u2019 do, rather than what you \u2018must\u2019 do.<\/p>\n In a word, no. Most couples choose to go with the same design and style throughout, but there are other ways to build a sense of flow across all the elements. You could choose different designs but keep the same colours, or have the same design in different colours.<\/p>\n You could choose a flower that means a lot to you and then have different illustrations of it or use different photos from your courtship across the different pieces. The sky really is the limit when it comes to creativity.<\/p>\n It really depends on whether you\u2019re taking a classical approach or something more modern. With a traditional format, they would generally be sent by the parents, who footed the bill. But these days, couples often send them personally, reflecting not only their financial input into the big day, but also the fact there may not be just two sets of parents involved, which can make it a little complicated.<\/p>\n So, a nice way to work it is to say something like \u2018Catherine Middleton and William Windsor, with their families\u2019. Whatever the case, we do always suggest that times and dates should be spelt out. Here are some examples…<\/p>\n Traditional wording<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Mr. and Mrs. Samuel Drake Casual (non-traditional) wording\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n With Joyful Hearts There\u2019s a few things, all designed to answer the question of who, what, when, where and why. They are:<\/p>\n – The hosts (as per above) Then, of course, come the added extras you can incorporate, such as a favourite quote from a poem or a movie you both love. We certainly encourage couples to add in anything that stamps their personality on the page to remind guests of their beautiful love story.<\/p>\n Depending on the size of the envelope, there\u2019s quite a few complimentary pieces of stationery you might want to include. The most common is an RSVP card and, as the name suggests, this invites people to formally let you know whether they plan to attend.<\/p>\n At the very least, these make for a wonderful souvenir for your wedding memory book. It\u2019s also a practical avenue through which to quiz them about any special dietary or other requirements they have. Something else people often find useful \u2013 on both sides of the equation \u2013 is the inclusion of a registry card.<\/p>\n This lets people know where you have registered and makes it easy for them to choose a gift they know you will love. Similarly, if you have everything you need and would prefer a financial donation, send a wishing well card to outline this request. Other helpful inclusions range from directions \u2013 if your venues can be tricky to find – to an extra information card, which might, for example, have suggestions on convenient accommodation to book, great places to eat locally and any transport arrangements that have been made for the big day.<\/p>\n Absolutely. In fact it will make it easier for guests to plan their trip. You can combine everything from a wedding eve barbecue to a day after brunch on the one invite and the events can also share an RSVP card<\/a>.<\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n
\nThe talented ladies behind\u00a0Lovestruck Invitations<\/a> were inspired to choose their business name in a suitably romantic way.<\/p>\nWhat\u2019s the first piece of wedding stationery you should send people?<\/h2>\n
What comes after that?<\/h2>\n
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Do I need to have the same stationery the whole way through?<\/h2>\n
And what about the wording? Who should the invitation come from?<\/h2>\n
\nrequest the honour of your presence at the marriage of their daughter
\nKaylee Jefferies
\nto
\nJonothan Higgins
\n<\/span>son of
\nMr. and Mrs. Steven Fred
\nSaturday, the eleventh of February
\ntwo thousand fifteen
\nat three o’clock in the afternoon
\nValley Views Retreat
\n411 Mountain View Road
\nMaleny, Queensland<\/span><\/p>\n
\nKaylee Jefferies
\nand
\nJonothan Higgins
\nWould love you to join us
\nas we wed
\nand celebrate our new life together
\nSaturday, the eleventh of February
\ntwo thousand fifteen
\nat three o’clock in the afternoon
\nValley Views Retreat
\n411 Mountain View Road
\nMaleny, Queensland<\/span><\/p>\nOK, so just to recap, what information does the invitation NEED to include?<\/h2>\n
\n– The name of the bride and groom
\n– Who is invited
\n– The date and time of the wedding
\n– The location of the ceremony
\n– The location of the reception
\n– RSVP deadline and contact details<\/p>\nFantastic, that\u2019s the invitation <\/a>sorted. What else goes in the envelope?<\/h2>\n
If I\u2019m holding other events around the weekend, can I include those invitations in the envelope as well?<\/h2>\n
And now to the fun bit. What sort of stationery styles are currently in vogue?<\/h2>\n