{"id":34849,"date":"2014-06-26T02:27:22","date_gmt":"2014-06-25T16:27:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/content.easyweddings.com\/au\/articles\/holding-ultimate-hens-party\/"},"modified":"2021-11-10T03:21:45","modified_gmt":"2021-11-09T16:21:45","slug":"holding-ultimate-hens-party","status":"publish","type":"au-article","link":"https:\/\/www.easyweddings.com.au\/articles\/holding-ultimate-hens-party\/","title":{"rendered":"How to hold the ultimate hen's party"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Whether you\u2019re a chief bridesmaid charged with organising a fabulous hen\u2019s night \u2013 or a generous girlfriend trying to ensure your favourite bride has a truly memorable final fling before her big day, holding a hen\u2019s party is about so much more than hiring a stripper or ordering lots of cocktails.<\/p>\n

In fact, pulling off a great hen\u2019s night is something of an art, one that requires imagination, organisation and, most importantly, understanding that some brides-to-be don\u2019t want strippers and cocktails.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019ve organised dozens of hen\u2019s nights (and thousands of events) and\u00a0 can tell you that every bride \u2013 and every client \u2013 is different,\u2019\u2019 \u00a0says Kara Fraser, co-founder of Secret Womens Business<\/a>, a Melbourne-based events company specialising in creating hen\u2019s nights that are as naughty or as nice as a bride wants.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou can\u2019t use a formula, certainly not for something as personal as a bride\u2019s hen\u2019s night. You must consider her personality, what she enjoys doing, the make-up of her guest list and, most importantly, what she wants from her hen\u2019s night.<\/p>\n

\u201cDo that and you\u2019re guaranteed to pull off a fantastic hen\u2019s night that the bride will remember for many years to come.\u201d<\/p>\n

Kara, who has worked in Australia\u2019s events industry for more than 20 years, describes herself as someone \u201cwho is ridiculously organised but knows a thing or two about throwing a good party,” adding that it’s a perfect combination for her line of work.<\/p>\n

She says that even if you\u2019ve never organised an event before, by listening to the bride\u2019s wishes, being organised and having a backup plan, you’ll inevitably run a fabulous hen\u2019s party.<\/p>\n

But, despite her advice, the thought of organising a hen\u2019s night is, often, terrifying to so many, which is why, Kara says, she and three fellow hospitality veterans decided to pool their skills \u2013 and their more than half a century of shared experience – to set up Secret Womens Business.<\/a><\/p>\n

The company, which kicked off last year, takes a different spin on hen\u2019s nights, offering themed events, such as Arabian Nights, which offers a Moroccan themed evening (right down to the tarot reader and Moroccan martini handed to guests on arrival) and the Mat Hatter\u2019s Tea Party package, which kicks off with a classic high tea, massages and a hat for each guest.<\/p>\n

Of course, Secret Womens Business<\/a> also offers \u2018traditional\u2019 hen\u2019s nights, complete with strippers, topless waiters and cheeky hen\u2019s games, \u201cbut that\u2019s not for everyone,\u2019\u2019 says Kara.<\/p>\n

Oh, and if your bride isn\u2019t a girly girl, she might prefer the Paintballing Princess<\/a> packages, which allows the bride and her maids to get down and dirty.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe trick to organising the perfect hen\u2019s party is to think about the bride and what she wants and likes,\u201d says Kara who has run everything from small restaurants and bars to some of Australia\u2019s best-known events, including Melbourne\u2019s famed Desperate and Dateless balls, a well as music festivals hosting more than 10,000 patrons.<\/p>\n

Kara says that among the most important skills required when organising a hen\u2019s night is the ability to plan ahead and to be a little creative.<\/p>\n

\u201cNot every bride wants strippers, but lots of brides do, so there are plenty of choices when it comes to activities.<\/p>\n

“Don’t worry about a theme, you could have a lawn bowls high tea, a murder mystery hen’s party, a day out with the girls at a spa or even a trip to the footy, if that’s what your bride likes,” adds Kara whose business also runs girl’s nights out for birthdays and work functions.<\/p>\n

The person organising your hen\u2019s night should also have some sort of structure or running order in mind because, though landing up at a bar and planning to dance the night way can be loads of fun, you want it to be truly special.<\/p>\n

They also need to be flexible, someone who can roll with the punches when things go wrong or change, as they inevitably will.<\/p>\n

\u201cIf you’re organising a hen’s party and, perhaps, the stripper doesn’t turn up, or the drinks run out, the you need to be able to deal with those situations as quickly as possible and solve them.<\/p>\n

\u201cFollow those simple steps,\u2019\u2019 says Kara \u201cand your hen\u2019s party will run beautifully \u2013 and memorably \u2013 and, if any little hiccups do occur, well, the bride will never even know!\u201d<\/p>\n\n

Kara’s top tips for organising a hen\u2019s night<\/h2>\n

1)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Send out Save the Dates or figure out how many people will be coming, as well as a date that suits best. This is crucial. Do this before you start looking at themes or venues.<\/p>\n

2)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Work out a basic structure but be sure to include a few surprises the bride doesn\u2019t know about. Be sure to include a few fun things that will make her night.<\/p>\n

3)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 There are no rules when it comes to organising a hen\u2019s night. You can be as inventive as you want. There\u2019s nothing you have to do! You\u2019re never going to be able to please everybody so, when in doubt, go with a theme or celebration that the bride and her maids are going to think is awesome!<\/p>\n

4)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 That said, do keep your guests in mind. too. If, for example, there will be a few older relatives attending but the bride wants a bit of a naughty hen\u2019s party, too, hold something like a high tea in the afternoon and, once the older guests leave, the party can continue in the manner the bride wants. The bride doesn\u2019t have to sacrifice her fun, she just needs to be a little flexible.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":34850,"template":"","au_article_tag":[544,126,451,584],"class_list":["post-34849","au-article","type-au-article","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","au_article_category-wedding-news","au_article_tag-cocktails","au_article_tag-hens-night","au_article_tag-hens-party","au_article_tag-high-tea"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.easyweddings.com.au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/au-article\/34849"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.easyweddings.com.au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/au-article"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.easyweddings.com.au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/au-article"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.easyweddings.com.au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.easyweddings.com.au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/au-article\/34849\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.easyweddings.com.au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/34850"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.easyweddings.com.au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34849"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"au_article_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.easyweddings.com.au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/au_article_tag?post=34849"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}