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Wishing well and wedding gifting etiquette is an unspoken dance between couples and guests. How much should guests contribute? Should you account for that in your wedding budget? And how do you avoid your great-aunt gifting you that tea set you desperately do not<\/em> want?<\/h3>\n
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An elegant modern wedding at The Trust Melbourne<\/a>, captured by Art of Grace.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

It’s no secret that these days, couples opt for a cash or digital wishing well<\/strong><\/a> over traditional gift registries. Guests, especially older ones, might be confused about the appeal of money over, say, a new sheet set or slow cooker. So, why are couples head over heels for the concept of wedding wishing wells over traditional gifts?<\/p>\n

Allow us to spill the tea. We surveyed 320 nearlyweds; almost 89% said they would be requesting cash gifts for their wedding. Modern couples are all about embracing experiences, adventures, and the freedom to choose how they shape their future. With a wishing well, they can gather the generosity of their loved ones and transform it into meaningful experiences like dream vacations, home renovations, or even starting their own business.<\/p>\n

In the words of Destiny’s Child, “I depend on, I depend on me.” Over half of our couples planning on wishing well said they didn’t need or want any gifts. While 25% said they wanted to make a little bit of their wedding spending, and a further 22% said their cash gifts would be going directly into the honeymoon fund.<\/p>\n

It’s like sprinkling a dash of magic over the couple’s happily ever after, allowing them to create cherished memories that will last a lifetime.<\/p>\n

Set Up Your Digital Wishing Well<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

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How Much Are Guests Contributing?<\/h3>\n

When it comes to contributing to a wedding wishing well, guests are often eager to lend their support. The beauty of a wishing well is that it allows guests to give what they feel comfortable with, ensuring no financial strain. On average, guests contribute anywhere from $50 to $200, depending on their relationship with the couple and their personal circumstances. Of course, some may be extra generous, while others may contribute a smaller amount.<\/p>\n

The results of our polling showed that 44% of couples would expect their guests to contribute $100-$150 per couple, while just 4% considered a gift of over $200 to be standard.<\/p>\n

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How do I ask for cash over gifts from my wedding guests?<\/h3>\n

Now that we’ve established the charm of a wedding wishing well, let’s explore the delicate art of asking for cash over traditional gifts. While you may find this topic daunting, we assure you it can be approached with grace and charm, making your guests feel comfortable with your choice.<\/p>\n

The good news is that wishing wells are so normalised these days that they’re more the rule than the exception. 78% of the nearlyweds we polled said they felt completely comfortable asking for cold hard cash as opposed to gifts. Here are the best ways to ensure people adhere to your wishes:<\/p>\n