Your wedding lingerie cheat-sheet
Let’s be real: wedding lingerie doesn’t get nearly enough airtime. It lives in the shadow of the dress, the shoes, the veil, the playlist, the seating chart drama… and then suddenly it’s the night before and you’re standing in your undies wondering, “Wait. What am I actually wearing under this thing?”
This is your no-fluff, no-frills guide to lingerie that actually works: for the big day, the after-party, and whatever’s going on after that. We’re talking about underwear that doesn’t ride up, bras that don’t bail on you mid-vows, and yes, a few fun things for the wedding night (if you’re not already passed out in your dress with cake in your hand).
Whether you’re after support, spice, or just something that won’t show through silk, when it comes to your wedding lingerie, here’s what to consider… and what to skip.
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First things first: Start with your dress
Strapless? Backless? Sheer? Plunging? Your dress will dictate what’s going on underneath.
Think of your wedding lingerie like scaffolding. The right one will support you, shape you (if you want it to), and completely disappear under your dress. You want it to do its job and keep quiet.
For strapless or off-the-shoulder dresses:
- Longline strapless bra: Holds up better than a regular strapless, and smooths things out. We like: Simone Perele Eden Strapless Bra.
- Bustier or corset: For serious structure and shaping, if your dress allows it. Try: La Perla Fressia Bustier.
For plunging necklines:
- U-plunge bra: Keeps things lifted without flashing the centre. We like: Victoria’s Secret Bare Infinity Flex Bra
- Adhesive cups: Good for light support if you’re not doing cartwheels. Try: Boux Avenue Stick-on Bra
For backless dresses:
- Low-back bustier. We like Simone Perele Essentiel Backless Strapless Bra.
- Adhesive bras or boob tape: Can be a bit trial and error, so practice ahead of time. We like: La Senza Adhesive Bra.
- Silicone nipple covers: If you’re cool going braless but want a bit of coverage. Try: Kiss Kill Nipple Pasties.
For fitted or silk dresses:
- Seamless briefs or a thong: No VPL, no problem. We like: Boux Avenue Seamless Thong.
- High-waisted shapewear shorts: Only if you want the smoothing effect. Try: Simone Perele Top Model High-Waisted Shaper.
- Bodysuit or shaping slip: Good all-in-one solution, especially for sheaths or column gowns. We like: La Perla Shape All-In-One Bodysuit.
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If it’s uncomfortable in the changeroom, it’s going to be unbearable by hour five
There’s lingerie that looks hot for seven minutes, and lingerie you can wear all day without hating your life. Aim for the second one (especially if you’re in your wedding dress from morning to midnight).
You’ll be sitting, standing, dancing, sweating, potentially crying, and possibly sprinting to a bathroom between courses. This is not the time to wear something that only works if you stay perfectly still.
Test everything. Sit in it. Walk in it. Raise your arms. Do a pretend champagne toast. If it digs, rolls, slides, or makes weird squeaky noises under your dress, ditch it.
Sexy isn’t a silhouette; it’s a vibe
If you’re not someone who usually wears structured lingerie, your wedding day is not the time to test your limits. Yes, there are gorgeous lace-up numbers out there. But you don’t have to wear white lace. You don’t have to wear a corset.
Because if you’re going to spend the whole day worrying about boning digging into your ribs, it’s a no from us. There are plenty of soft, supportive options that look good and feel even better. You don’t have to compromise either way.
That said, if you’re after ideas for something a little elevated, here’s a few faves:
- Lonely Label Bra + High-Rise Briefs – Cool-girl minimalism that still feels special.
- For Love and Lemons Teddy – Sheer, romantic, and made for a slow undress.
- BHLDN Slip – Silky, timeless, and the kind of piece you’ll actually wear again.
- Honey Birdette Bridal Edit – Bold, cheeky, and a bit of fun without going full burlesque.
- Brava bras – Beautiful, luxe options that actually support a fuller bust.
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The wedding night
You may have grand plans for the wedding night. You may also end up fully clothed, eating room service, watching reality TV, and falling asleep in a robe. Both are valid.
But if you do want to make a moment of it (whether it’s the night of, the next morning, or sometime during your honeymoon), go for lingerie that makes you feel good, not what you think you’re “supposed” to wear.
Choose one:
- Something spicy (hello, mesh bodysuit or sheer lace teddy)
- Something minimal (silk slip dress + bare skin)
- Something comfy (matching bra and thong set)
- Nothing at all (valid choice)
Your partner is going to be stoked either way. The lingerie is the cherry on top.
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Wedding lingerie doesn’t have to be white
Sure, there’s tradition and symbolism and all that, but there are no rules. Blush, black, champagne, navy, soft grey: these all hit differently and look beautiful. Plus, let’s be real: white can be hard to keep white, and harder to wear again.
If you’re doing a pre-wedding boudoir shoot, this is a great time to try colour and texture. Velvet, mesh, satin, leather (yes, really): whatever feels like you. Also, don’t sleep on a good robe. A sheer lace one over lingerie? A silk one while getting ready? It’s giving main character energy without even trying.
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Don’t forget the “getting ready” moment
This is the one that shows up in the behind-the-scenes pics. You’ll probably be surrounded by your bridal crew, sipping something bubbly, with someone waving a curling iron dangerously close to your face. Again, no pressure, but you’ll want something that photographs well but doesn’t ruin your hair when you take it off.
Morning-of wedding lingerie? Think:
- Silky robe – Classic, easy-off, and breathable.
- PJ set or chemise – Cute and won’t mess up your hair when you take it off.
- Slip with built-in bra – A little bit more “put-together” if you’re getting filmed or photographed while doing your makeup.
- Robe with drama sleeves – because that’s just hot.
Bonus points if it has pockets for tissues, mints, or emergency lip balm.
Practical stuff you’ll wish someone told you sooner
- Try it all on together: Dress, shoes, wedding lingerie, veil, everything. Do a full dry run.
- Bring a backup pair of underwear. Things happen.
- Get properly fitted: Your bra size might not be what you think it is. A good fit changes everything.
- Lingerie tape is your secret weapon: Also works in a pinch for fixing hems, straps, and rogue lapels.
- Don’t leave it to the last minute: Online shipping delays are real and nobody wants a last-minute Kmart emergency bra.
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The finishing touches that complete your wedding lingerie look
Once you’ve locked in the practical pieces, you might be tempted to add a few extras to your wedding lingerie setup: things like garters, suspenders, or a floaty lace robe. Do you need them? No. Can they elevate the experience and make you feel like a bridal goddess? Absolutely. It’s about adding those little details that feel fun, flirty, and you.
Remember: wedding lingerie should feel like an extension of you, not a costume you can’t wait to peel off.
Ready to find your actual dream wedding lingerie?
From delicate lace sets to shapewear that actually stays put, we’ve rounded up some of the best lingerie suppliers to help you feel amazing on your big day (and night). Browse wedding lingerie suppliers on Easy Weddings and tick this off your to-do list without leaving your couch.
