Should you send thank you cards?

Thank you cards: Once a core staple of the wedding invitation suite. Are they still relevant? Expected? Appreciated? Is a group text more appropriate in 2024? We’d argue that a beautifully presented thank you card goes a long way to leaving a classy, lasting impression on your guests.

Sure, a well-formatted email might get the job done, but it doesn’t quite capture the personal touch of a note sent through the mail. A thank you card shows that you’ve taken the time to express your gratitude in a way that’s tangible and timeless. Plus, it gives you a chance to relive the joy of your celebration as you write them. A win-win!

“Are thank you cards outdated?”

No way! Picture this: your guests sift through their mail, expecting the usual boring bills, and instead, they find a gorgeous thank you card from your wedding. Instant smiles all around! Sure, a quick text might be convenient, but it doesn’t have the same wow factor. A handwritten card is like a mini celebration all over again, showing your guests just how much you appreciate them. So, keep the tradition alive and add a dash of old-school charm to your modern wedding—your guests will love it!

“What should we write in our thank you cards?”

It can be tricky to know how to put your feelings into words. Here are some ideas you can use in your thank you cards. The message in your thank you card should be succinct and express your gratitude for your guests taking the time to celebrate your love. If you have time to write personalised thank you cards, you may want to think your guest for their gift — be sure to mention specifically what the gift was to ensure your message is genuine.

Classic Thank You Card Messages

• “Thank you for being a part of our wedding day. Your presence meant so much to us.”
• “We are grateful for your attendance and support on our wedding day. Thank you!”
• “Thank you for celebrating with us. We appreciate your love and friendship.”
• “Your presence at our wedding made the day even more special. Thank you for being there.”
• “Thank you for joining us and for your support. It was wonderful to have you with us.”

Fun Thank You Card Messages

• “Thanks for bringing the party to our wedding! We loved celebrating with you.”
• “You helped make our wedding day unforgettable. Thanks for the laughs and good times!”
• “Thanks for dancing the night away with us at our wedding. We had a blast!”
• “Your attendance at our wedding was the best gift we could have asked for. Thanks for the memories!”
• “We couldn’t have imagined our wedding without you. Thanks for being there and making it so much fun!”

Unique Options

• “Your presence at our wedding was a highlight of the day. Thank you for sharing in our joy.”
• “We are so grateful you could join us for our wedding celebration. Your support means everything.”
• “Thank you for being part of our wedding journey. Your presence made it unforgettable.”
• “We cherish your love and support on our wedding day. Thank you for celebrating with us.”
• “Your attendance made our wedding day complete. Thank you for being there and sharing in our happiness.”

Physical cards? SMS? Email?!

When it comes to thank you notes, the method you choose can say a lot. Physical cards add a personal touch and can be kept as keepsakes, showing you took the time to express your gratitude. An SMS is quick and convenient, perfect for a casual thank you among close friends. Email strikes a balance, offering a personal message with a bit more formality than a text. Choose what feels right for you and your relationship with the recipient.

Physical thank-you cards are the gold standard for expressing gratitude. They offer a tangible, personal touch that digital messages can’t match. Handwritten notes show that you’ve taken the time and effort to appreciate your guests, creating a lasting impression. These cards can be cherished as keepsakes, reminding your friends and family of the celebration and your heartfelt thanks.

Thank you card styles we adore

We can’t get enough of these gorgeous designs from suppliers in our wedding supplier directory. Remember, invitation designers are experts at customisation and personalisation. Do you have a unique vision for your thank you cards? Your designer can help. All you have to do is ask.

Designs by Peppermint Press.

Designs by Paperlust

Designs by Mila and May