Ways to make yourself feel less awkward with a photographer
Does the thought of stiff, cheesy couple poses on your wedding day make you cringe? You’re not the only one!
We get it: this is your wedding day and you want to feel like your authentic self. A good photographer knows how to set even the most camera-shy couples at ease, but we’ve got a few more tips up our sleeve to help you out.
Your wedding photos should reflect the real you and the genuine emotions of the day. The last thing you want is to look back on your pictures and see forced smiles and awkward poses. With the right approach and a few handy tips, you can feel more comfortable and confident, ensuring your photos look natural and relaxed.
1. Choose the right photographer
Finding the right wedding photographer is crucial. Look for someone whose style resonates with you and who makes you feel at ease. Meet with potential photographers before booking them. Discuss your vision, preferences, and any concerns you might have. A good photographer will listen and provide feedback, helping you feel more comfortable. Building a rapport will make a significant difference on your wedding day, allowing you to relax and trust that they’ll capture your best moments.
2. Schedule an Engagement Shoot
An engagement shoot is like a practice run. It helps you get used to being in front of the camera and allows your photographer to understand your best angles and how you interact as a couple. It’s a great opportunity to break the ice and get comfortable. Plus, you’ll get some beautiful photos to use for save-the-dates or your wedding website. Treat it as a fun date rather than a formal photoshoot, and you’ll start to feel more at ease.
3. Dress for success
Comfort is key — even on your wedding day. Choose a wedding dress or suit that not only looks great but also feels good. You’ll be wearing it for hours, so it needs to be something you can move and breathe in comfortably. Avoid anything too tight or restrictive. If you’re comfortable, it will show in your photos. Also, consider a pair of comfortable shoes for walking between photo locations, even if you change back into your fancy ones for the pictures.
4. Practice makes perfect
Spend some time practising poses in front of a mirror or with a friend. Discover your favourite angles and expressions. This can be a fun exercise and can help you understand what works best for you. Look at examples of wedding photos and try to mimic poses you like. Practising beforehand will make you feel more confident and less awkward when the time comes.
5. Speak up
Be open with your photographer about your likes and dislikes. If there are certain poses or angles you’re uncomfortable with, let them know. If there are specific moments you want to be captured, communicate these clearly. A good photographer will appreciate your input and work to ensure you’re happy with the results. Don’t hesitate to share inspiration photos that you love. Clear communication will help tailor the session to your liking.
6. Get silly!
Encourage your photographer to take plenty of candid shots. These unposed moments often capture the most genuine emotions and interactions. Let your photographer know you want a mix of candid and posed photos. Enjoy the day, interact naturally with your guests, and forget the camera is there. The result will be a collection of beautiful, authentic moments that truly reflect your day.
7. Focus on each other
One of the best ways to feel less awkward is to focus on your partner. Interact with each other naturally—hold hands, share a joke, or steal a kiss. Forget about the photographer and immerse yourself in the moment. When you’re genuinely enjoying yourselves, the camera will capture those real, heartfelt interactions. Your connection with each other will shine through in the photos, making them more special.
8. Take breaks
If you start feeling overwhelmed or tired, don’t hesitate to take a break. Use this time to relax, have a drink, and catch your breath. Short breaks can help you stay refreshed and reduce any feelings of awkwardness. It’s your day, and you set the pace. A few minutes to regroup can make a big difference in how comfortable you feel.
9. Have a chat
Talking with your photographer during the session can help ease any tension. Light conversation can make the experience feel more like hanging out with a friend rather than a formal photoshoot. Ask them about their favourite weddings, their photography style, or even share a laugh. Engaging with them can help you feel more relaxed and make the session enjoyable.
10. Get lost in the moment
Remember, this is your wedding day—a day filled with love, joy, and celebration. Try to soak in every moment and let your happiness shine through. The more you enjoy yourself, the more it will reflect in your photos. Don’t be afraid to be yourself and let your personality come through. The best photos are the ones that capture genuine emotions and real moments.
By following these tips, you’ll be able to relax and enjoy your wedding day without feeling awkward in front of the camera. Trust your photographer, focus on your love for each other, and let the magic of your day unfold naturally. Your photos will be a beautiful reflection of your celebration, capturing the true essence of your relationship.
