If you are married, can you still be maid of honour in a Catholic Church

Question Asked: 14/06/2023

Wedding Date: 9/08/2018

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Beswick Life Celebrations - Lesley Beswick

(5) · Ballarat, Daylesford, Ballan, Warrnambool, Bacchus Marsh, Geelong & Bellarine Peninsula

Posted: 15/12/2023

I know it sounds antiquated, but you would be called the "matron of honour" if you are married.

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Treasured Ceremonies

(17) · Byron Bay to Ballina , North Coast NSW and Gold Coast QLD

Posted: 19/09/2023

You can be whatever you want to be. 
the more important reason to be there is to support and assist the bride.  
Titles do not (or should not) matter

Ceremonies by Rosemarie

(24) · Perth

Posted: 4/07/2023

Traditionally, a maid of honor is an unmarried woman who serves as the bride's principal attendant. If she is married, the term matron of honor is used.  She is typically a close friend or relative of the bride, chosen for her emotional support and organizational skills throughout the wedding planning process. It's worth noting that these days the distinctions are used interchangeably so you can certainly be married and a maid of honour.

Janet Lomax ~ Sydney's Inner West Marriage Celebrant

(175) · All Sydney Suburbs ~ The Blue Mountains and The Southern Highlands

Posted: 21/06/2023

Hi ~ Of course you can!  Anyone can be a Maid of Honour at any wedding, whether its in a Catholic Church or anywhere else.

Have the best time ever!

Janet:)

Margaret Bates Marriage Celebrant

(67) · Statewide Victoria

Posted: 21/06/2023

Yes you can be a maid of honour in a Catholic Church if you're married.  The marital status of the bridal attendants is irrelevant

Jo-Ellen Moynihan

(17) · Brisbane / Gold Coast / Sunshine Coast / SE QLD

Posted: 20/06/2023

Yes of course you can! there is nothing stopping you from being a maid of honour if you are married.

Celebrate With Me - Debbie Payne

(29) · Brisbane / Sunshine Coast & Surrounds

Posted: 20/06/2023

Traditionally the Maid of Honour is a single person and the Matron of Honour is Married. Their duties remain the same. You may also choose to have a "Man of Honour" who undertakes the same duties. ;) 

Trevor Rice Celebrant

(25) · Melbourne and surrounding areas

Posted: 20/06/2023

I'm neither a Catholic nor a priest but I am older and I believe that the Maid of Honour is unmarried while the Matron of Honour is a married person. Anyway the Maid or Matron of Honour is treated just like another bridesmaid and has to smooth the dress after the bride;s entrance.

Perfect Memories Celebrant

(3) · Adelaide, Regional South Australia

Posted: 20/06/2023

I'm not a priest but I am Catholic. Rules apply just to the couple. Rule of thumb if you are single you are a maid of honour, if you are married you are the matron of honour. Just very old traditions and wording. Hope that helps :)

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