Lise Rodgers-The Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

Lise Rodgers-The Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

Life in many ways is a balancing act, in every moment of happiness can be found traces of sadness and in deep sorrow often a smile , even laughter sits just below the surface. For most of us, we are the people we are because of those who came before us - parents, grand parents, great grandparents, so they will always be a part of your unique character and therefore be present in spirit at your wedding.

Often the first choice is a candle lighting ceremony. But sometimes the touch of a memento makes it a more personal gesture. Did your late Nan have a favourite piece of jewellry that you could add to your gown or your hair? Could you wear her favourite perfume? Did she have a favourite saying or a poem that could be read?

Thinking of what she meant to you, what you loved most about her can often give you the clue as to what to do and a creative celebrant will always be able to craft the words that make the moment special and meaningful without bringing the mood down.

Lise Rodgers-The Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

yes, sometimes couples do choose to add those traditional lines to the legal vows they have to say. Don't often have anyone choose to love, honour and obey though......But seriously, your personal vows are all about choosing sentiments that reflect who you are and what you feel.

Lise Rodgers-The Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

My advice to couples is to say what's in your heart. Don't try to be too clever, too witty, too emotional...and don't try too hard or you'll never feel that you're good enough. There is no right or wrong here. It's your moment, to say quite simply to each other, how YOU feel. So if you focus on that, what you say will always be special, meaningful and just right for you.