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Get Expert AdviceI don't want a trashy hens, but I suspect thats whats being organised for me..
Ive always wanted a quiet brunch with girlfriends, but Ive heard that my sister in law is planning a trashy hens complete with stripper... this really isn't what I want, but how do I tell her to change everything when its probably already paid for?
Beyond the Napkin, Essential Etiquette
Hi Sophia,
It is your Hens Party and you are the reason it is happening, so having something acceptable to you should be the priority for the organisers.
Unfortunately what some deem trashy others deem perfectly acceptable, so I would suggest a quiet word with your sister in law along the lines of:
" I hope you haven't felt the need to plan a big night for my hens party, as I would be more than happy with something simple and elegant such as a brunch etc." Do not use words such as trashy to describe anything, as I'm sure you don't want to unintentionally offend. Reinforce how you appreciate what she is doing and state that you are confident that she will organise something suitable that you will enjoy.
If she mentions that strippers are booked and paid for, then politely and non-confrontationally say that it is not your scene. After all it is your celebration.
Best wishes
Kim
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Dear Bride,
It is customary for pre wedding celebrations to be organised by the Bridal Party with input from the bride, hence you do have a say in who attends.
Good luck and all the best for your upcoming wedding.