Would it be acceptable for a woman to wear white at a gay wedding?

Wedding etiquette generally suggests that guests should avoid wearing white, regardless of whether it’s a traditional or same-sex wedding, simply because white is typically reserved for the couple.

That said, it ultimately depends on the couple’s preferences and the overall wedding vibe:

• If in doubt, ask the couple. Some may not mind, especially if the wedding has a relaxed dress code or if white is part of a specific colour scheme.
• If the dress has white but isn’t all-white, such as a floral print with white as a base, it may be more acceptable.
• If the couple is wearing something other than white, it might be less of an issue, but it’s always best to check.

A good alternative would be soft pastels or neutral tones, which still feel elegant without overshadowing the couple.

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HI 

This is always best answered by checking with the wedding couple. if this is not possible then I always suggest that if you are in doubt then dont do it.

All the best

Xavier

Black tie by Xavier 

I agree with Stuart, but add one caveat. If you are the Bride it IS okay to wear white. Societal norms in relation to traditions and values hold true for same sex weddings, as they have for traditional weddings. Do not feel pressured to not wear the dress of your dreams because it is a same sex wedding, it is your day, and what you want is what should be.

If you are a guest, then it is probably not appropriate, but having said that always consult with your friends first. As a guide if you are unsure, don't wear white as a guest.

I hope this helps

Matthew - Brittons PERTH

P: 08 9325 7390

The same should be held for the bride at a gay wedding and white should not be worn out of respect.